Sex Part I: A Divine Gift

God gave us sex as a gift which bonds a woman and a man together to create a union of our hearts and souls out which we are given a role in Co-Creating with Him. Sex is holy which we have learned that being Holy is entering into God’s Love. This act of Love is co creating with God therefore is not something to take lightly. So sex is a Holy act. Secondly, God created sex as a way for us to share ourselves completely with one another, to become totally naked, vulnerable, and open to one another. Sex when shared and honored in this way becomes truly an act of worshiping God. This is what true worship looks like, to worship our creator God and one another at a super intimate level.

Sex in its purest form is so intoxicating and deep that we can only linger in the moments before during and after an orgasm for minutes. As we become one flesh (Matthew 19:4-6) in those moments we melt into each other giving us the act of pure union meant for a marriage only. When we make the first penetration into the woman we both feel this utterly amazing feeling of “ah” it is that moment we say no verbally to each other “I love You”. This act ties our souls and hearts together in a way we may never fully understand. I do know this we cannot share this intimacy, this bond with more than one person at a time. I do believe there are differences between a man and a women in how each experiences this union. For us men the act of entering into a women with our flesh while having her flesh wrap is like diving into pool of perfectly tempered crystal clear spring water. We immerse soul into hers. This is very different from the woman’s point of view. For her it is an invitation to the man to come in, to open her heart and soul like a door that is being unlocked and as we enter the room where she says none verbally “come deep into me” and she provides you that look that you just found something out so deeply about her that words cannot describe it. In this time we are completely together even though how we got here was different for each but now as we are heart and souls one flesh one body bound together are inclination to finish kicks in. We want to finish it, have an orgasm. Now little time is left, for the finish of an orgasm is minutes away ending our union. I suppose God made it this way because most of us would if given a choice would stay in that feeling, that union forever and we would not get any sleep or anything else done that day.

As we progress towards the finish of the union we worship each other through each movement and each sensation. This in and out movement representing song we are singing to each other. As the orgasm approaches something more profound takes place this heightened sensitivity brings us that feeling of “I would do anything for you and this love and nothing in this world matters”. Our concentration is so focused and so intense nothing can stop it. We now are at the climatic end. We call it a climax for a reason for what is about to be unleashed in the orgasm is life creating and soul bearing. I can only speak towards the male orgasm for that is my only internal experience in which I can reflect upon. As we start to ejaculate the impulse and reaction is to thrust as deep into her as I can. Trying to pull out at this point is so counter intuitive to do so ends something so abruptly it takes discipline most of us don’t have and it why we should teach our young people that this is not a good form of birth control. This sense of driving deep into her can only mean I am putting something so special so profound and meaningful, I want it to go to the depths of her heart where she will remember my soul and keep it locked away telling no one else this secret, this intimate detail of my being. In the midst of this explosion of love something else is going on. A release of life that when combined with her life with the help of God will form another child of God. This love explosion then puts God’s creation capabilities into action. It is much like a prayer but instead of verbal or through a thought this prayer is a physical one. It says to God here you go we want to create a human being in the image of you Lord and hey can you make this child of yours look like Mom and Dad?

So it is finished we lay there together in a heap of sweat and bodily fluid looking at each other with such satisfaction and love for we cannot fathom a better place to be in those moments. We know then that something of that union stays with us forever only to be broken when we choose to break this bond by loving another in that same way. To reduce this amazing act of worship to just something pleasurable would be a travesty and false as to the power of this immeasurable gift from God. This is what true worshiping of God should look like! Thank you Lord for this gift, this glimpse of Heaven and what true union feels like. Continued Sex Part II: A Divine Rejoining

The the following is a compilation of passages of The New Testament using the verses 10:10. This number sequence I have used for years going back to the sports number 10 I used on many jerseys. I hope this speaks to my story and my life to come taken through God's Divine word.

Do not take along any gold or silver no bag for the journey. Who divorces his wife and marries another woman. The kingdom of God is near. May have life, and have it to the full. He saw heaven opened. It is with your heart that you believe. Who trusts in him will never be put to shame. And do not grumble warnings for us, on whom the fulfillment of the ages has come. We will be in our actions when we are present. We have been made holy through the sacrifice of the body of Jesus Christ, take away sins. You must prophesy again about many peoples.

Yes or No Not "OR"

Have we lost the ability to tell each other YES or NO? It seems like we are so afraid of giving someone a definitive answer in fear of offending the other person or them thinking less of us. This is especially evident in the business world. The standard "great job, we'll get back to you." Then we spend the next few weeks with no answers either no or yes with numerous attempts and they don't even have the decency to return a call or email in fear of offending me with a "NO".


Jesus said "Simply let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one." Matt 5:37(NIV)


Take a look at your life. How often do you sit on the fence, blow people off just because you don't have the fortitude to tell someone the truth with a simple yes or no? The truth is "NO I am not interested". Then sometimes we say yes and then quickly figure out we should of said no in the first place but by then we have blown them off hoping they will figure out by our non-communication that it should of been "no" in the first place.

Yes, Jesus was right on spot and the human condition has not changed in two thousand years. Nothing good comes from not sticking to our commitments. Say no and mean no and let others go on their way and in the end we will all offend each other less and keep more friendships.

Feeding God's People

We(family) spent a few hours the weekend of March 30th helping prepare and serve food at Central United Methodist in Kansas City Kansas. We served about 120 individuals and families most of which are homeless or less fortunate. This video clip is a compilation of some photos my daughter took that day. Try it sometime it is moving to know we are all just a few months financially away from being in the same position.

Movies To See

Here are some great movies I have watched over the last few years. I have ranked them 1=Good, 2=got to watch it sometime, 3=Put it on the list, 4=Must See, 5=Foundational go get it today

Freedom Writers 4
Luther(2003) 5
King David 4
How to Know God 3
Beyond the Gates 4
The Final Inquiry 4
Gabriel 4
Into the Wild 4
Last Sin Eater 3
Kingdom of Heaven 4
The Gospel of John 5
Off the Map 2
The Man from Snowy River 4
The Cowboys 4
One Night With the King 4
A Good Year 3
The Ultimate Gift 5
Conversations With God 5
Amazing Grace 5
Enron: The Smartest Guys in the Room 3
Jesus Camp 3
Sweet Land 3
The Passion 5
Water 4
The Nativity Story 5
A History of God 4
Born Rich 4
Peaceful Warrior 3
God Grew Tired of Us 3
Braveheart 2
Gladiator 2

This list is not meant for entertainment purposes but to offer you and I an opportunity to feel our hearts, see our faith, and experience love. Seeing the pain, joy, and love of other's stories moves us to discover our own hearts. There is some much for us to learn about how life really is not just this surface busy life, where we are all just trying to get ahead or keep from going backwards.

I hope will at least watch the movies with a 4 and 5 next to them. As always if you have a 4 or a 5 rated movie drop a comment to me so I make sure I add it my list. Most of these movies where recommendations from others and I am eternally grateful for their suggestions.